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The Conversation Many of Us Avoid Until We Are Forced to Face It

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This is one of those conversations people rarely bring up until they have to. In therapy and coaching sessions, I often sit with individuals who are suddenly facing decisions they never imagined making. A loved one’s health changes, a diagnosis shifts the ground beneath them, and questions begin arriving quickly, often faster than the answers. People find themselves wondering what to expect, how to make the right decisions, and how to support someone they love while trying to manage their own emotions. What I hear most often is not only fear or grief, but uncertainty. There is a quiet realization that no one ever taught us how to navigate this part of life. We are taught how to work, how to care for others, and how to push through hard seasons. Yet when it comes to end-of-life conversations, many people feel unprepared and alone.



What People Are Often Looking For

Most people are not searching for perfect answers. They are looking for steadiness. They want information that helps them understand what is happening and what may come next. They want reassurance that their questions are normal and that their reactions make sense. Many want language for conversations that feel heavy and guidance on how to be present without saying the wrong thing. Not everyone has access to therapy or a space where these topics can be explored openly. Even for those who do, having clear and compassionate education can make a meaningful difference. When information is structured, reliable, and offered with care, it can reduce overwhelm and create a sense of grounding during an emotionally intense time.



Why Resources Like This Matter

Uncertainty has a way of amplifying fear. When people do not know what to expect, they often second guess every decision and search endlessly online for answers. Information is scattered, opinions conflict, and the emotional cost of sorting through it all can be exhausting. Having expert guidance does not remove the pain of these moments, but it can reduce the panic that comes from not knowing. When people understand what is happening, they tend to feel more anchored. Decisions feel less overwhelming, conversations feel more possible, and there is often more room for connection, even in the midst of grief. Many people also notice that being supported through loss deepens their appreciation for the life and relationships they are still living.



Why I’m Sharing This

Mental wellness does not only matter in moments of stress or transition. It also matters in the moments we tend to avoid talking about altogether. In my work, I see how lack of information quietly adds to emotional overwhelm. When people do not know what to expect or do not have a safe place to ask questions, fear often fills in the gaps. Education cannot take away the pain of hard moments, but it can offer steadiness, clarity, and support. Not everyone is connected to therapy or guided conversations around these topics, which is why thoughtfully designed educational resources can be so valuable. If even one person feels more informed, grounded, or less alone because of this, then it feels worth sharing.



A Thoughtfully Guided Resource If You Are Looking for One

There is an educational course available called (affiliate link) When a Loved One Is Dying, created and taught by Julie McFadden, RN. Julie has over sixteen years of experience as an ICU and hospice nurse and is also the New York Times best-selling author of (affiliate link) "Nothing to Fear: Demystifying Death to Live More Fully." She is widely known for her calming presence and her ability to explain complex and emotionally charged topics in a way that feels clear, compassionate, and human. This course is not designed for medical professionals. It is designed for people facing one of the most difficult and uncertain seasons of life. In just under three hours, Julie walks participants through what many families are left trying to figure out on their own. The course covers how hospice works and how to choose a provider, what physical changes often occur during the dying process, how to provide emotional and physical care, how to communicate with compassion, and how caregivers can care for themselves. It also addresses grief and the importance of support.


Rather than piecing together information from scattered videos or articles of varying quality, this course brings everything into one clear and supportive space. It is grounded in years of clinical experience and organized in a way that supports learning during stress rather than adding to it. Participants receive unlimited access, allowing them to return to the material as often as needed.



If This Is a Season You Are In or One You Sense Is Ahead

As long as we live and we love, this is a place we will all arrive someday. This course is not about rushing people into decisions or forcing difficult conversations before they are ready. It is about offering knowledge and support so that when the time comes, you are not navigating it alone or in the dark. If this topic has been lingering in the background of your thoughts, consider this an invitation to begin learning now, in a calmer moment, rather than in the midst of crisis. Please remember, as you begin this wellness journey, do not worry about getting it perfect; just get it going. Until next time. Happy reading!


Tell Us Your Thoughts

"As long as we live and we love, this is a place we will all arrive someday."


As you sit with that truth, what thoughts or feelings came up for you while reading this, and what kind of support or information do you wish people talked about more openly when it comes to caring for loved ones at the end of life? Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.


“Awareness of death is the most powerful source of vitality in life.” ~Irvin D. Yalom

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